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Evidently Apostate
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Love-bombing - the best deterrent of all time.
by easyreader1970 inmy wife was recently in a car accident.
she's okay, but was incapacitated for a few days because of the injuries.
she missed a couple of meetings.
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Evidently Apostate
Ah Yes, witness love is overwhelming, until your numbers and attendance start to slide then your worse than dog sh&*.
funny thing is if you actually left the jw's and she stayed with you no one would give her the time of day, except to show her a little pity for living with a inactive husband. i doubt they would make any anouncements
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How Would You Recommend Getting Rid Of Jehovah's Witnesses?
by minimus in....at your door?.
my gf mistakenly took brochures/pamphlets and now they drop things in the doorway every week (at least).. any suggestions?
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Evidently Apostate
botchtower, what was a dildo doing in an umbrella stand?
i like the jerry seinfeld approach
"so your hear to discuss religion"
"why yes"
"then give me your address"
"why"
"so i can come knock on your door at 9am and annoy you"
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What was your reaction when first introduced to the "1914" doctrine?
by highdose ini studied the paradise book, you may remember there was a whole chapter it in about the dream, the tree getting chopped down, time, time and half a time etc.
now i was very young ( but of course spirtualy mature (!
) when i studied this but i remember seeing the person explain this doctrine to me and it was like.... " ok now you see this scripture here?
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Evidently Apostate
sizemik, we were just hopefull and they took advantage of us and many others. lots of empty promises
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What was your reaction when first introduced to the "1914" doctrine?
by highdose ini studied the paradise book, you may remember there was a whole chapter it in about the dream, the tree getting chopped down, time, time and half a time etc.
now i was very young ( but of course spirtualy mature (!
) when i studied this but i remember seeing the person explain this doctrine to me and it was like.... " ok now you see this scripture here?
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Evidently Apostate
when i was a full indoctrinated jw the explanation really didnt matter, it was reaching to say the least and i never tried to explain it to a study or at the door i new better. i was sold on the generation that saw 1914 would be alive at armageddon which gave me a timeframe for the end. ultimatley that is what conviced me the witnesses had something special, they had the secret that gave me a spiritual purpose.
the change in the generation doctrine especially the overlapping generation forced my eyes open and now i feel like a duped fool. they are liars
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I'm a JW...HERE ME WHINE!!!
by scooterspank ini don't even know where to start.
every jw i still have contact with is poor, their health is bad, they're stressed out, they're unhappy people.
they put on a good front but you can see the strained smiles, those distant looks into nowhere (or where their life could have gone).
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Evidently Apostate
reminds me of the carrot in front of the donkey
or the mouse in the wheel. always running and going nowhere
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Evidently Apostate
its thesame thing from the platform and in any dubs mind. if you want to go out on your own terms then DA unless you feel the need to explain your actions to 3 uninterested men but in the end your out. consider it a victory.
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you have no right to complain
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Anyone in the New England Area want to see a wrestling show and donate to Silent Lambs?...
by Tuesday inhey folks,.
so i have a show coming up in west warwick, ri on 5/28.
you can check out the website www.thencwonline.com in the upcoming events section for all the details.
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Evidently Apostate
tuesday, i live near you but i am not a wrestling fan and donating to silent lambs is a great idea.
stand firm, you will help a starving child but not a site that trys to help abused ones? are you Theo J's ghost?
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Now my marriage vow is directly connected to remaining a witness...
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i recently informed my wife of 25 years (the love of my life) that i just cannot go on any longer with this facade.
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Evidently Apostate
married 20 years and going through the same thing. i have expressed my disbelief in the watchtower for over a year and will still attend a few sunday meetings just to make her feel good but its very hard to stomach all the hate and lies. try to keep your negativity about the org in check if your concience will not allow you to go d to d then tell her why but dropping all the meetings and service at once is a huge shock to her. she has given you 25 or more years so if it takes a couple years to transition out then is that really unfair? i try to be a better man now and my wife notices it also if you can point to something in your life that has stumbled you then use it.
my life has become a chess game i make a move then she counters and sometimes i wonder if i can stick it out but until she says i want out i will continue to try to open her eyes. i want her out with me.
good luck to you